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8 Ways To Tell If He Is Only Interested In Sex

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You got it on, and it was good—good enough that you’d like a repeat performance and maybe even something more. But how can you tell if the guy you’re getting down and dirty with wants the same, or is only in this for sex? While there’s no exact science that lets us pry into the male mind, there are a few surefire ways to tell if a tryst will grow into something more, or not so much. Here are eight signs he’s only using you for sex.

1. You’re not sure if he actually has friends—because you’ve never met them. Whether you’ve been between his sheets once or 20 times, with a gun to your head you couldn’t recite his BFF’s name or describe to a sketch artist what he looks like. This man hasn’t bothered to introduce you to his friends, let alone tell you about them.

2. He’s never invited you to spend the night. It’s all wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am as he ushers you toward the front door and (reluctantly) offers you cab fare. If you’re into a postcoital cuddle, he may pat your back for a few minutes before he excuses himself to the bathroom, returning fully dressed and wondering why you’re still curled up naked.

3. Come to think of it, he’s never actually taken you on a date. He may have offered to split the cost of a postsex pizza or served you a drink from his home bar, but this dude has never taken you on a real date—you know, the kind where he picks you up, pays, and takes you home with a peck on the cheek and a “I can’t wait to see you again.”

4. He gets all weird when you try to have, like, a real conversation. He can go all night long when it comes to discussing dirty talk or the lingerie he wants to see you in next. But mention you’ve found a job you want to apply for and this man is suddenly too busy to hear you speak.

5. He compliments you—on how you look. Why? Because he hasn’t taken the time to get beyond what he can see from two feet away, possibly in the dark.

6. He “forgets” foreplay and heads straight for the grand finale. A man who wants more wants to give you a reason to come back for more. A man who wants sex cares first and foremost (and only) about his own orgasm.

7. He talks badly about his friends’ girlfriends. Does it seem strange that all the women his friends date are somehow gold-diggers, nitwits, or otherwise incapable of making men happy? Red flag, my dears.

8. If you forget something at his place, it’s like the sky is falling. And we’re not talking about squeezing tampons into his already crowded medicine cabinet. Rather, when you leave behind a single bobby pin that dislodged itself from your fierce updo and found its way under his pillow, he can’t stand the thought of keeping this plastic-coated pin a second longer.

What are some other signs you’ve come to recognize that mean a man only wants sex?

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