We all know that girls like to talk a lot and have some favorite phrases that they often repeat. But how does the boyfriend react to these over-used phrases? They simply hate to hear these. If you really care for your guy and want him to stick to you, you need to know the phrases he hates to hear. Here are top 7 seven phrases that you should think twice before uttering.
“Am I looking fat?”
To you knowing whether you are looking fat may be the only thing you care in the world, but to him answering this question day in and day out is an ordeal. What do you expect him to say? How long should he answer this question? Simply put, your boyfriend dreads this question. He can’t say yes, because that would upset you even if you look fat and saying no every time is plain lying.
“I need to talk to you”
May be you want to discuss something harmless or silly but the phrase itself sends chills down his spine. He thinks that you are going to share something terrible or will accuse him of some misdoing. He hates this phrase as it makes him look like a child about to be scolded by his mother. If you have anything to discuss, do it maturely without terrifying him.
“My ex did this ……”
Again, you are at it. What is the point in bringing up your ex and saying how he did this or that? Most men hate to hear this phrase and get themselves compared to the exes. You should realize that your ex is your past and you should never drag him in the present unnecessarily.
“Why did your mother say that?”
Everyone is possessive about their mothers and other family members and you should stop criticizing them blatantly. Such disapprovals hurt his emotions and ego. They will lead to fights which will harm the relationship in the long run. So you should check your urge to comment against his relatives and just let them be.
“No, please not tonight”
Rejecting his sexual advances hurts him. It also bruises his ego because he takes it as a rejection of his love and affection for you. May be you are tired or have some other problem for not wanting to have sex. You should explicitly tell him the reasons behind your no.
“You have changed so much”
Men simply hate to listen to this lament. It irks them because you say it to get his attention. Stop doing this. You are mature enough to know that people change and so do relationships. You have also changed and you cannot expect him to be the same.
“Don’t be so boring”
You may never realize how this phrase hurts your boyfriend. Maybe he was just trying to be funny. This blunt phrase leaves his ego injured and affects his self esteem. If you really find him boring find other ways of saying it. Maybe you can suggest topics that will be interesting to talk about.
These are the top 7 phrases that guys hate to hear. Guys have big egos that get hurt easily. You should be careful about what you say to not hurt him. Simply avoid these phrases and find other ways of letting him know what you feel.
(via Angela Expert)
