There could still be things he would never want you to know. We reveal a few of them…
He may be your childhood friend or someone you’ve been with since more than a decade. But this doesn’t make it mandatory for your man to tell you every little thing about his life, especially his past. There is certain valuable information he would love to keep to himself and never tell you about it. Moreover, men even feel trapped if they are pushed to open up or communicate. Here are a few facts your man may try to cover up..
How does it feel listening to stories about how your guy bagged a lot of hot chicks during his college days and the kind of physical equation he shared with each of them? It certainly isn’t a great feeling. Your guy knows this and so he may hide it from you. You need not force your guy to divulge numbers as it might upset him and put you at the risk of spending the night alone.
1. His strip club experiences
Most guys take pleasure in watching the ladies dance around erotically. For your guy, going to a strip club with his gang of guys might be an open option for an evening’s entertainment but he would make sure you don’t even get a hint about it. “Your guy will never even say that he was a regular earlier with the fear that you’d interrogate him on the same,” says Dr Minnu Bhonsle, consulting psychotherapist and relationship counsellor. “You would want to know why he likes it, and how much he spends when he goes to a strip club and a lot more,” she adds.
2. He is emotional
Being caught crying by a woman is nothing less than a nightmare for some guys. That’s one of the reasons guys never express themselves. They love to portray themselves as strong and attempt to create a macho-man like image of themselves. Some even believe that shedding tears or expressing one’s feelings is something that just women do. Guys never want you to know that even they think a lot about certain things and that those little matters tend to affect them too.
3. His porn store location
His hard disk is full of porn and sleazy content but when you may ask him about it, he might react saying, “What?” Guys like porn but they might not be very open to accepting the same. Guys tend to mix up their fantasy world with the real one which is wrong but you need not compare yourself to Jenna Jameson or Sunny Leone every time you’re in bed with him. If you know that your guy is trying to keep his porn collection under wraps, let him. Do not stress him into unveiling it by poking him all the time.
4. He is still a mama’s boy
Many men are pampered and spoilt for choice by their moms. So when they get
married or get into a relationship, they end up constantly comparing their partners to their moms which in turn leads to the extremely popular saas-bahu rivalry. They may know it but definitely wouldn’t like you to know that they are overgrown mama’s boys and still depend on their mommy for their every little need.
5. His bizarre fantasies
Certain fantasies can be shared and enjoyed together. But he may be into real freaky stuff that may involve weird tools, and you may not quite appreciate them. So, it’s absolutely normal for him to not divulge some daydreams and thoughts as you may just head to the door once you get to know of them.
