No man was born knowing all the secrets of pleasing women in bed, and we all have to learn. If you want to have wild, passionate bedroom sessions with a woman, you need to keep her needs in mind and give equal importance to all aspects of lovemaking. Understand what women want in bed with these five tips and you’ll be able to turn your woman on and arouse her like never before!
1. More foreplay
Avoid the typical routine of turning off all the lights and just grunting and pounding away in the dark. Take your time and master the art of foreplay in order to drive your woman wild. Most women have more erogenous areas than simply her breasts, nipples, and genitals. Start by learning your lover’s other “hot” zones, particularly her neck, shoulders, back, buttocks and feet. Focus on all of her, kiss her hands, lick her navel, kiss her toes, the back of her neck and everywhere else. Kiss up her inner thighs, and breathe warmly on her vagina. Then, run your tongue over her clitoris so lightly she can barely feel it. Build up to a sexual action with teasing until she’s practically begging you for it. THEN give her the gratification.
2. Appropriate sexual language
Appropriate sexual language can get a woman’s mind venturing into a myriad of fantasies; however, using phrases like “Who’s your daddy?” or asking can your roommate join in are surefire ways to make her put her pants back on–fast! Start out by saying tamer things and with tamer language (for instance, “I’ve been wanting to get inside you all day”), and slowly moving on to the nastier lingo over time.
3. An emotional connection
To enjoy sex better, you always need to focus on making her feel loved and emotionally connected to you. Show her that you genuinely care about her feelings and treat her like a person, not a score or another notch on the bed post.
4. Self esteem
Building a woman’s self esteem is one of the most important things you can do to make her feel sexy when she’s in bed with you. Overlook her awkward spots and make her feel loved and comfortable, compliment her and make her feel great about everything, from her make-up to her hair, her eyes, her body, etc…
Concentrating solely on your own sexual gratification is likely to leave your lover feeling underwhelmed or unsatisfied once you finish. Just because you got off, that doesn’t mean that she’s satisfied. Remember, a good lover makes the effort to make sure his partner is satisfied before he is. Take it slow and don’t ejaculate until your woman has reached orgasm first. Or if you’d like, try to orgasm together. But don’t end it before she’s had an orgasm.