A 14-year-old bridesmaid took to Reddit to ask whether she was being unreasonable for being upset after her sister demoted her from the wedding party for having “huge” boobs.
The 14-year-old explained that her sister asked her to be one of her bridesmaids at her wedding in a few months time.
As she had never been to a wedding before she was thrilled to be a part of it.
When it came to bridesmaid dress shopping, the bride picked out a gorgeous pinky red colour with ruffles on the top for her bridesmaid dress.
The teenager loved it and it was just the right length so she could get away with wearing flat shoes – and importantly, she wouldn’t be too warm in it.
After trying it on she couldn’t wait to show her sister how pretty it looked.
But when she stepped out of the changing room with the other bridesmaids she was horrified at her sister’s reaction.
The bridesmaid explained: “My sister looks at me and her face just freezes.”
And that’s when it all went wrong.
She added: “I asked her if she didn’t like it, but she just didn’t respond. She asked if she could talk to me in the other room and I say sure.
“We walk into her bathroom and she just kinda looks at me and sighs. Then goes ‘your boobs look huge,’ which stunned me for a moment.”
Apparently, the bride through her curves would take the attention off of her and her fiancé on their big day.
She said: “(Bride said): ‘You can’t wear that to my wedding.’
“I say OK, so we can return these dresses and pick out some other ones if you don’t like these.
“She kinda shakes her head and goes no that’s not what I meant. I’m confused by now.
“She goes, ‘I like the dress, just not you in it.’ By then I’m like what the f*** do you mean.
“And this b**** goes ‘I don’t want any attention straying away from me and my fiancé, I’m sorry but you can’t be my bridesmaid.’
“I’m angry now, ‘so the problem is that I look great in the dress’, and she just sheepishly nods.”
As a result, the other bridesmaids decided to pull out until the bride apologises and agrees to let her sister be a bridesmaid again.
The bride later messaged her sister to tell her she had “ruined” her wedding, which is why the teen turned to Reddit to ask whether she was being unreasonable for feeling upset.
One said: “This sister isn’t just a bridezilla, she’s hella insecure if she think a 14 year old is going to steal the spotlight from her own wedding.”
Another added: “Absolutely horrendous. Honestly makes me sick.”
A third said: Not the a***hole. It’s also sad and disturbing that your sister thinks her 14-year-old sister’s boobs are going to distract the guests. Are you for real?”
And: “Does she just expect everyone who goes to the wedding to look worse than her?” said a fourth.