Ladies, 10 Ways To Know If He’s ‘The One’

Ladies, 10 Ways To Know If He’s ‘The One’

By Lifestyles | The Trent on September 20, 2014
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You have probably been dating for a while already and start thinking about settling down with your partner…but how to know if he is the one? Well, today let’s discuss some tips on how to find out if your boyfriend is written in the stars for you:

1) Butterflies in the stomach.

I know, it, probably, sounds cheesy but butterflies are often one of the first and important indicators that your boyfriend is the one. Do you get this funny feeling in your tummy when you see your special someone or when you think about them? If yes, it’s a good indicator.

2) You enjoy each other’s company, it doesn’t matter where you are and what you do, the most important is to be together. 

It’s very important to enjoy the company of your special someone if you plan to spend the rest of your life with him. Do you ever get bored in his company? Notice how you feel when you are together? Do you feel complete and happy? Whether you watch a movie, go to the park or restaurant…actually, it doesn’t really matter where you are and what you do, the important thing is that if he is the one, you will really enjoy his company at all times…

3) You trust him.

Trust is one of the most important pillars of a happy relationship. If you love the person you are with, but you doubt his honesty and you can’t 100% trust him, then it’s time to think carefully before moving further with him. Do you trust him fully and completely? Is he trustworthy? Think about it very carefully.

4) Great communication.

When you are looking for your other half, you want to be with someone who is open, who can freely share their thoughts with you and, also, listen what you have to say with care and understanding. Great and easy communication with your boyfriend adds another point to the possibility of him being the one!

5) When he makes you giggle all the time…

Humor can make life a lot brighter and easier. When your partner makes you laugh and giggle all the time, it means that a lifetime in his company will be filled with smiles and joy. When you often giggle together, it’s, definitely, a great sign.

6) You are his priority. 

When your partner puts your interests above his own and shows true care…If he prioritizes you and your desires, it’s a great sign that he is a giver and will be a great husband in the future. If he values your opinion and cares about your happiness – he is, definitely, a great husband material!

7) He loves people you love.

When your partner values and appreciates your friends, family and loved ones, makes an effort to get along and builds up good a good relationship with them, it’s a good sign that he is a keeper and, therefore, might be the one!

8) In his company, you are you.

Another great sign that your boyfriend might be the one is when you can be completely and fully yourself in his company. You don’t need to pretend, play “perfect” or try to impress him, he just loves you for you, he loves you with or without makeup, accepts you fully and completely when you are in a good or bad mood, you can express yourself openly without fear of being judged. If your partner accepts you, loves you and values you this way, he can, definitely, be a great husband in the future.

9) He treats you right.

Does your man open all doors for you, keeps umbrella under your head to protect you from the rain, gives you his jacket to keep you warm? If you can notice these signs of chivalry in the behavior of your man – he will, definitely, treat you right in the future, just like all “misters right” do ;).

10) Do you share core values?

When it comes to commitment, it’s very important to agree on some most important points and share core values with your partner. What does he think about belief in God, kids, family? If you agree and understand each other on these points, it’s a great sign.

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