How to Handle Every Breast Type
Breasts are like snowflakes. Every one is unique. Know the right moves, though, and you’ll have her melting in your arms.
Large Breasts: In a study conducted at the University of Vienna, researchers found that large breasts were about 24 percent less sensitive than small ones. “This is probably because the nerve that transmits sensation from the nipple is stretched,” says Alan Matarasso, M.D., a plastic surgeon in New York City. Stimulate the outer sides of her breasts, just below the armpits, with your tongue or fingertips. Make flipping motions with your tongue and even experiment with light nibbling.
Small Breasts: They’re sensitive, but they can handle more motion because of their size. Use your palms to cup and gently bounce her breasts during sex.
Droopy Breasts: Droopy breasts can be the least sensitive—not only are the nerves stretched, but they’re compressed by the breasts’ weight. Have her lie on her back; it’ll cause her breasts to shift up and out, relieving the tension on the nerves and helping her focus on the pleasure.
Surgically Enhanced Breasts: If done properly, implants won’t interfere with sensation. But they will move differently. Concentrate on the surface of her breasts. Use your tongue to make circles that gradually spiral in toward the nipples.
New-Mom Breasts: Her nipples will be tender, so focus on the breasts’ undersides, which are frequently neglected. Gently cup and support her breasts. It’ll feel nice to her after a long day of suckling.
What About Her Nipples?
These handy barometers of desire are simple to read: Up is “on,” down is “off.” But they’re also thermometers, popping up when the weather’s cold, like giant goose bumps. The nipples are important—in fact, for some women, you can induce an orgasm just by doing breast duty. But the sensitivity of nipples varies widely; handle with care.
Large: Because they have more nerve endings, big nipples are often hypersensitive, so don’t be too aggressive when applying pressure.
Small: The areola—the dark-colored circle that surrounds the nipple—is actually more sensitive than the nipple itself. Focus especially on the upper quadrant of her breast, between 10 and 2 o’clock. It’s the most sensitive part of the bull’s-eye.
Inverted: One study has shown that 3 percent of women have innies. The cause: genetics. The nerve endings in breasts with inverted nipples are no different from those of any other nipples. “Often, women with inverted nipples may be more sensitive emotionally because they may feel that their nipples aren’t normal,” says Shirley Zussman, Ed.D., a sex therapist in New York City. Reassure her with compliments about her breasts. You can lure the nipples out if you’re persistent with touching, kissing, licking, and gentle sucking.
How to Double Your Pleasure During Sex
Compliment her on how her breasts feel early in foreplay. According to a UCLA study, women unhappy with their breast size are 16 times more likely to hide their breasts during sex—and where’s the fun in that? “Comment on her high responsiveness to stimulation,” says Patti Britton, Ph.D., a clinical sexologist. “It takes the emphasis off of how they look.” Then use these strategies to make the most of your turn-on type.
You’re a Small Boobs Man
Men who like small-breasted women—and there are millions of them—are often seeking a more submissive, non-threatening partner, says psychologist Stuart Fischoff. Also, you may get the psychological hint that she’s not trying to compete with other women who have larger breasts, and therefore she’ll be loyal to you. Or maybe the very first girl you had a crush on had small breasts, and if she constructed your earliest example of what’s sexy, her memory may still lead you to find small-breasted women exciting.
To maximize your arousal, have her stretch during missionary-position sex, by straightening her arms above her head. Anything that makes her appear long and lithe will flatten her breasts and stroke your primal urges.
You’re a Big Boobs Man
Some researchers have theorized that human breasts evolved to be so preciously pendulous because, well, they need to do the work a baboon’s backside does in attracting a mate. “Unlike a baboon, a human woman walks upright and needs to have her sexual attributes up front,” says sex therapist Michael Perry. So, in a sense, her breasts may be a frontal derrière. In fact, the visual qualities of the breasts and the behind aren’t all that different. “Also, men and women look for differentiation in their sex partners,” says Perry. We already bring flat and hard to the bedroom; we need something curvy, supple and bouncy to make us feel complete.
Put her on top so she faces you and let her do the bouncing. For a fuller experience, have her hold her breasts together and do the movement thing you’ve seen in the porn movies. Just be gentle and use plenty of lubricant; she’s not built to handle harsh friction up there.