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11 Ways To Catch A Cheater

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1PAY ATTENTION TO WHERE HE IS WHEN HE ISN’T WITH YOU

Is he spending time with or talking a lot about someone of the opposite sex? Is he hanging out with someone he claims is just a friend instead of you? Sometimes both people involved in an affair cover for each other so be aware of that.

2WATCH HIS CELL PHONE BEHAVIOR

Does he always turn off his cell phone when he’s with you because he doesn’t want any incoming calls from his “other” woman? Do your calls go through to his voice mail a little too often? He may have his cell phone turned off because he is with his affair. If you have access to his cell phone, check it for repetitive unknown numbers and suspicious text messages. If you have access to his mobile phone bill, note repeated calls or calls of long duration and the times. Press the re-dial on his phone or *69. This is an effective way to find out who he has been calling.

3MONITOR HIS TIME SPENT ON THE COMPUTER

Does he have multiple email accounts or a free email account you don’t know about? If you suspect your partner is involved in an affair, you can install a keystroke logger which logs every keyboard stroke. It’s not illegal to install a logger onto your own computer which the two of you may share, but make sure you check your local laws before installing it on someone else’s computer. Take note of late night computer usage, especially in chat rooms. Check his internet web browser history (cache) for unusual websites he may be surfing such as dating sites.

4CHECK HIS SPENDING HABITS

If you have access to his bank or credit card statements, check them for unusual transactions. Pay attention to any strange ATM withdrawals or unexplained travel and business expenses. If your guy is often broke, he could be spending money on his affair.

5MONITOR YOUR PARTNER’S DRIVING HABITS

Watch for an increase in gas receipts and monitor the car’s odometer to see if there are extra, unexplained miles on the car. If your mate claims to be working late, check paycheck stubs to verify the overtime. Place a GPS tracking device in the car. They are usually no larger than a pack of gum and will track anywhere his automobile goes. Make sure you research any legal ramifications before you decide to do this.

6CHECK UP ON HIM

If he says he has to work late or is studying late, show up unexpectedly to bring him a gift, like coffee or a snack, to reward him for working so hard. If you don’t live with him, drive by his house to see if he’s home when he is supposed to be.

7SET A TRAP

99.9% of the time, cheating men will cheat when their partner is out of town or when they are traveling. Tell your partner you are leaving for the weekend and then wait and watch. If he doesn’t come home all night, he could be at another woman’s house or at a hotel. Otherwise, he may bring the other woman to his or “your” home. Remember the old saying….”when the cat’s away, the mouse will play?” It’s very true.

8PLACE A MADE-UP PROFILE ONLINE

Set your partner up by placing a fake profile online and see if he takes the bait. This can give you an indication of his character and dedication towards you.

9FAKE HIM OUT

Like in poker, bluff that you have a great hand. Tell him you know what he’s up to and that he had better tell you the truth. Ask him if he would be willing to take a lie detector test to give you piece of mind and see how he reacts. Lie detector tests have become affordable and are available in most major cities. Many men will lie to the very end but if you are a good enough actress, you may get the information you are looking for.

10WATCH FOR SUDDEN BEHAVIORAL CHANGES

He’s not paying as much attention to you. He’s not interested in sex. He cancels time with you or comes home late often. He suddenly becomes more interested in his own appearance. He becomes defensive when you ask him questions and then tries to make you seem paranoid by blame switching. These could be indications that he’s seeing someone else.

10BECOME YOUR OWN PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR

Place a voice-activated digital tape recorder in a discreet place such as under his car seat or bed. Make sure it has a long recording time that can record for many hours. I know many women who have caught their cheating partners this way but had to listen through hours of recording time. Be sure to check your local laws.

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