Earlier this week, I wrote an article informing ladies of the quickest way they can lose their man to another woman. It would be remiss of me to not inform men of the quickest way to lose their woman to another man.
While we may share a lot of similarities, no one can refute the fact that men and women are different. Men, who are filled with a lot of testosterone, primarily operate off of logic. Women, who are filled with a lot estrogen, primarily operate off of emotion. Once you understand and acknowledge these bare essentials of human physiology, you’ve already won half of the battle in understanding relationships and dating. Since it does not come natural, it is imperative that men learn how to think emotionally. And by “thinking emotionally,” I mean thinking selflessly. Before you do or say something to your significant other, do you ever stop and ask yourself “How will this make her feel?” The great Maya Angelou once said “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel,” while this profound message can be applied in all areas of life, it is especially true when you’re interacting with a woman.
Men, the quickest way to lose your woman to another man is not make her feel loved. When you’re tuning her out because she’s talking too much, not taking her out on dates anymore, and not forcing yourself to care about her feud with family and friends, you’re leaving the door open for another man, who is smarter than you in the subject of women, to come into your relationship and sweep her off of her feet. The other man will ask her how her day is going; he’ll ask her if he can treat her to dinner; he’ll give her advice on how to deal with on-going drama with family and friends. He does this because he knows this is what women want and need, not because he necessarily cares. And guess what? He wins because he makes her feel like she’s loved and appreciated.
The sooner you understand this, the better your relationship will be with women.