Sometimes suspicion and mistrust can ruin your relationship with your girlfriend. But if the matter is serious and the nagging suspicion is impossible to ignore, here are few steps to figure out if your fears are real:
1. If she turns secretive and tries to guard her conversations on the phone, leaves the room everytime she gets a call on her cell.
2. If you call or text her first all the time and she doesn’t bother to do so then that is a bad sign.
3. If she starts picking fights too often.
4. If you catch her lying, it is often a cause for concern giving signal of infidelity.
5. If you find a change in the behaviour of close common friends then it is possible that they know something that you don’t. Perhaps you are the last to know.
6. If your girlfriend suddenly starts worrying a little more about her appearance – new clothes, make-up…she may be trying to look good for someone else. If she gets dressed up for you, that’s one thing but if they seem to spend a little more time looking good to go out without you, then that might be a cause to worry.