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7 Secrets To Sex, Love, And Lust (READ)

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Kerri-Anne Kennerley has a few things to say about love and lust; after all, she is the Queen of Hearts.

The Australian television star, who this year celebrates her 30th wedding anniversary to husband John, has joined forces in a surprise partnership with Durex to launch what they describe as a “spine-tingling gel”. Ooh la la.

While she’s at it, she gave news.com.au some advice on her top tips for long lasting love … and lust.

1 . RELATIONSHIPS

“You need to like each other and be patient with each other. Know each other’s foibles, know when to talk to them and know when NOT to say anything. Take a deep breath and don’t try to change people.”

2. SEX

“Everybody has to come to their own personal agreements with their relationship, it’s something very personal. Every year, let alone every decade, you change, you grow, you develop. I have done interviews with sexologists since 1981 and they say, in their professional opinion, that there is no set number of times you’re supposed to have sex per week. There is no average, it’s whatever you and your partner wants.”

3. HOOK-UPS ARE COOL, BUT BE SAFE

“As always you’ve got to be careful. We are time poor and let’s face it, the old system didn’t work that fabulously well. The internet comes with its problems, as long as you’re aware of what they are, you can have some interesting hook ups, but be careful. Rules apply to this new way of dating; it’s on steroids.”

Still loved-up: KAK and John will celebrate their 30th wedding anniversary on August 18. Picture: Joel Spooner.

Still loved-up: KAK and John will celebrate their 30th wedding anniversary on August 18. Picture: Joel Spooner.Source: News Limited

KAK was friends with hubbie John for 18 months before they finally hooked up.

KAK was friends with hubbie John for 18 months before they finally hooked up. Source: News Limited

4. MONOGAMY

“There’s a lot of temptation out there. Temptation BEFORE consideration happens. I think you’ve got to respect and like a person but there are things in life that can change a person. Stuff happens whether you’re moving house or changing jobs. One of my theories with Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman was their marriage broke up when they worked on Eyes Wide Shut. Stanley Kubrik dissected every single portion of their relationship and life. When you pull everything apart, sometimes it’s really hard to put it back together.”

5. KNOW WHEN TO SHUT UP

“I believe examining everything in minute detail is not healthy. Sometimes, leave well enough alone. Take a deep breath and try not to change people. You have to be who you are.”

Kerri-Anne’s secrets to sex, lust...

The Australian TV icon says you can’t fake feelings. Source: Supplied

6. YOU CAN’T FAKE FEELINGS

“Feelings are like an emotional depth that you have no control of. You have to let yourself feel. Do I believe in love at first sight? It didn’t happen to me but I’ve talked to people to whom it did, and it’s lasted forever.”

7. FRIENDS FOREVER, STAY TOGETHER

“Be a friend when you first get together. Yes it’s all hot, fabulous and lustful which is cool, but as weeks go by you actually have to have something a little bit deeper than that. If you genuinely don’t like someone how will you stay together? You have to actually like them in order to wake up next to them every single morning. That’s the most important aspect.”

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