Pastor Chris Oyakhilome’s Wife Files For Divorce On Grounds Of Adultery (DETAILS)

Pastor Chris Oyakhilome’s Wife Files For Divorce On Grounds Of Adultery (DETAILS)

By Anita Sunday | Society Reporter on August 29, 2014
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Pastor Chris and Anita Oyakhilome

The dissolution of the marriage between Christ Embassy Church founder, Pastor Christian Oyakhilome, and his wife, Rev. Anita Odegwa Oyakhilome, has entered the final phase, The Cable reports.

The couple have been reportedly living separate lives for many months which was a course for concern for the church members.

New reports say Anita Oyakhiloma on April 9, 2014 filed for a divorce citing “unreasonable behaviour” and “adultery” as her reasons. According to reports, she outlined several allegations against the pastor which cannot be published for legal reasons.

The case with Suit No FD14D01650, was filed by Attwaters Jameson Hill Solicitors on behalf of Mrs Oyakhilome at Divorce Section A, Central Family Court, First Avenue House, High Holborn, London, England.

Pastor Oyakhilome was served with a decree nissi in his hotel room on a recent visit to London, The Cable reports.

In divorce cases, a decree nisi is issued by the court to tell the parties that they have to wait a certain period of time before making their divorce final. This is to allow time for anyone who objects to the divorce to tell the court why they object. The decree nisi can often be set aside with mutual consent of the spouses. When the period expires, they can apply for the “decree absolute”, which means the divorce is completed and the partners are no longer married

The couple, blessed with two daughters, Sharon and Charlyn Oyakhilome, are so loved by members of their congregation who have tried to broker peace between them but all efforts to reconcile them seem to have failed.

The Cable reports:

The pastor, according to an elder of the church, has denied allegations of adultery and believes his wife is being influenced by “bad friends” who are intent on destroying their home. While Anita believes she has been relegated in the scheme of things in the church, her husband has reportedly accused her of trying to usurp power and authority above her seniors in the ministry. Sources told TheCable that the pastor had been making efforts to avoid divorce in the hope that the wife would eventually have a change of mind.

Church insiders said Oyakhilome had been hoping for rapprochement, but he was left with no option than to receive the papers when the lawyers cornered him at his hotel in London. The decree absolute, which will effectively end the marriage, is expected to be issued soon while terms of the divorce will be worked out by the lawyers on both sides.

TheCable learnt Anita recently wanted to go public with the details of her allegations against the husband but reached an informal agreement to sheathe her sword in the interest of the church.

Oyakhilome is regarded as one of the richest and most influential pastors in Nigeria, and co-authors the fast-selling Christian daily devotional, Rhapsody of Realities, with the wife. However, following the strain in the marriage, the wife had been complaining to friends that her husband had stopped the payment of royalties due her from the devotional.

“She complained of being deliberately starved of funds, perhaps to bring her to her knees in the belief that she would eventually return to her matrimonial home and mend things,” a church member told TheCable in the UK. A wealthy Zimbabwean businessman, who is into telecoms, is one of the biggest financiers of the London branch of the church which Anita pastors along with other branches in Europe.

When the crisis got to a head, the Zimbabwean stopped funding the church ? some said in solidarity with Oyakhilome, his close friend and neighbour in Johannesburg, South Africa. However, Oyakhilome was said to have been shocked when the wife announced at a fundraiser that she was sowing a “seed” (donation) of $1 million ? despite her assumed lack of access to funds. Matters got to a head on Sunday, July 13, 2014, when some relatives of Anita locked up the London branch of the church to protest against the “humiliation” being meted out to their sister ? who had not overseen services at the branch since November 2013.

Some church members had sometime in May 10, 2014 launched facebook campaign, asking: “Where is Rev. Anita Oyakhilome?” They said Pastor Chris and Rev. Anita must unite “for the sake of the gospel, the church and their two beautiful daughters”.

They quoted Malachi 2:16 in the Message Bible: “I hate divorce, says the God of Israel.” The facebook page, which has over 3,300 “likes”, was opened with a stated mission: “This is a Call to Prayer for all believers who understand God’s heart concerning marriage and a Call to Action by Pst. Chris. #DoWhatYouPreach”.

Officials of the church quickly moved to deny any rift between the pastor couple. One official, Kenneth Achumasara, told the media last June: “I can tell you authoritatively that there is no issue between Pastor Chris and his wife, Anita…

If you go to the UK now you will see her along with the kids. She is still with him and there is no issue between them. I have been with him for 22 years and the Pastor Chris I know cannot even utter such words as reported. He will never address such a gathering. She will soon be in Nigeria for a programme and I will definitely invite you to have access to her.”

1 COMMENT

  1. It’s so unfortunate that our pastors today have forsaken the way of God and turned to the devil way. God cannot be deceived because He is the creator of all mankind. the end time is hear be WATCHFUL.

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