Sex is a glorious, delicious, sumptuous feast. It is simply one of the most fabulous aspects of being alive. When it’s really good it turns you weak with happiness, makes your toes tingle, and your lover fall passionately in lust with you – for the first time, or all over again. Cosmopolitan’s new eBook How to have him begging for more will show you how to have this kind of sex and we’re sharing our fave selection of saucy tricks with you…
Chase me: great for the romantic man, the raunchy man, the mischievous man
This is a fabulous technique for when you’re short of time. Say you want to ravish him in between getting home from work and going to your parents for dinner, but don’t have more than ten spare minutes. Your average romantic man doesn’t take kindly to being rushed. He needs a good hour to get into the mood – he can’t perform just like that, and if he thinks you’re trying to force him into a wham bam, he’ll turn all sulky and defensive.
So … use the entire day as foreplay. Leave a succession of increasingly suggestive e-mails on his computer. Or only if he has a private office – a saucy message on his answer machine. Stick a lustful note inside his briefcase. Phone him and whisper sexy somethings. If you can get him thinking sexy thoughts (and apparently men think about sex every nine seconds so it shouldn’t be too difficult), he will have a good nine hours to get turned on.
Shutting your legs: simple, slinky, surprisingly effective
Sexperts often suggest it if his penis is a tad short, but it’s great whatever his size. He goes on top, you take it easy. As he penetrates, shut your legs, squeezing your thighs tightly together. This position helps his penis to rub your clitoris as it goes – and it also gives him a sensation of tightness. Well, he’s not going to complain, is he?
Knicker tricks: isn’t sleaziness what makes sex so attractive?
Lower your principles. Do something tacky. When you’re sitting in a restaurant, go to the ladies, remove your knickers, then scrunch them up in your hand and sweetly pass them to your man. Or do it at the table. Someone did this in a film – can’t recall who – but I bet her knickers weren’t crotchless. Crotchless knickers might be a cliche but who gives a stuff? If your sexual image is elegant candlelight, white sheets, gossamer lingerie and perfect hair, your man is probably gagging for a bit of grubbiness.
Grown up hide and seek
Late at night, lights off, phone off the hook. Make the atmosphere as spooky as possible. If you can stand it, watch a horror film to psyche yourselves up even more. Then, dress in a skimpy outfit that makes you feel vulnerable, make him count to 100, while you hide. When he does find you, it takes a woman with nerves of reinforced steel not to scream, wriggle, and half-heartedly try to escape.
If you want to have the most passionate, peel-yourself off the ceiling sex of a lifetime, now you can.
(via Cosmopolitan)
