Ah, attraction. Isn’t it great when a guy is staring at us all the way from the other side of the room? It makes us all tingly inside and out, and sometimes we even blush.
But hold on a minute. Wait a second here. How do we know that the guy who is staring intensely at us is actually attracted to us? What if he’s just a weirdo creep who likes to freak people out by staring at them?
Or what if he’s a serial killer?!
Okay, okay. Calm down. Relax. Because we’re here to help you out with 10 undeniable signs that a guy is immensely attracted to you. So let’s take a look!
1. He’ll Touch His Hair
Seriously, if a guy has got the hots for you, he’ll touch his hair. If you’re lucky, he’ll even stroke his beard for you.
It’s actually a subconscious thing, and guys often don’t know they’re doing it. But it’s a flirting technique they have, whereby whenever they’re getting hot and bothered about a girl they can’t help but brush their hands through their long, flowing manes. Think of it as a mating call that goes back thousands of years.
2. He’ll Make Eye Contact
One of the biggest signs that he’s got it bad for little old you is that he’s making eye contact with you. If you’re chatting to him and he looks at you directly in the eyes, it’s often a surefire sign that this guy wants you.
Even better, if you notice him looking you in the eyes with a sort of thoughtful, faraway look that suggests he is thinking of something else other than what you are saying, he definitely fancies you. And he’s basically thinking of you naked.
3. He’ll Lean Into You
If he isn’t interested, he’ll sit back wit his arms crossed. If, however, he is immensely attracted to you, he’ll lean in to get closer. No doubt he’ll try to be as subtle as possible with this one, but you’ll certainly notice him edging closer and closer.
If he’s like so attracted to you that he literally can’t contain himself, he’ll pretty much get in your face.
4. He’ll Touch You
He won’t try to touch you in a creepy way, but will instead try to keep it cool and flirty. He might be waiting for you to say something remotely funny so that he can touch your thigh as he laughs.
Even if what you’ve said is actually really embarrassingly unfunny to you, he’ll still laugh and touch you. After all, he’s gotta take his chances, right? A surefire sign he’s interested in you is when he compliments you hair or asks questions about it – before touching it.
5. He Actually Listens To You…And He Hears You
If he’s immensely attracted to you, he’s going to be listening to what you have to say. He’ll want to hear all about your bad day at work, your drama with your friend, as well as what you should wear tomorrow night. If later on in the conversation he picks up on the little things you said earlier, you know for sure that you’ve got a got who’s got the hots for you.
6. He’s Everywhere On Your Social Media
Uploaded a photo of yourself recently? Yup, he’s already liked it. Perhaps you’ve just made a status about cats? Yup, he’s literally just liked that too.
If a guy is immensely attracted to you, he’s going to show it by being all over your social media. He might not leave many comments, but he will instead like any number of your posts and tweets. And he’ll definitely like your brand new profile pic.
7. You’ve Made Him Nervous
If he goes red when talking to you, or appears nervous and fidgety, it means you’ve done it again. You’ve cast your spell over yet another guy, and now he can’t get enough of you.
So you can take it as a good sign when a guy is anxious around you; it means he’s got it bad for you and can’t control himself. He wants to pull himself together, but he’s just so gosh darn nervous about trying to impress you that he’s falling apart at the seams. N’aww!
8. Fancy Seeing You Here!
Yeah, fancy seeing me here … at the beauty salon.
When a guy really has the hots for you, he’s going to step up his effort to be where you are. And because of the great powers of social media, he can easily find out in seconds exactly where you are. And even if it means he’s gotta hop on 3 buses to get there, it doesn’t matter! He’ll be there!
So if you’ve noticed that he’s been popping up at all the places you’ve been recently, you should start to assume that he’s really digging you. And if you find him hiding in your bushes at midnight, then it’s time to call the cops. He’s basically just gone too far.
9. He’ll Thrust His Hips Closer To You
Okay, so this move sounds like something Channing Tatum did in Magic Mike, but a guy’s primal instincts when they fancy a girl is to spreads their feet and direct their hips and pelvis forwards towards the girl.
We seriously can’t scold them for doing it, because scientists tell us that it’s purely biological. But if you really don’t like the idea of a guys pelvis and hips thrusting themselves near your face, you can just tell him to stop. Wow, calm down, buddy!
10. He Values Your Opinion
If you’re in a group, your opinion and reaction will matter before anyone else’s. To this end, if he says something he thinks his funny he will immediately check your reaction first. He wants to know if you’re digging him too, and he couldn’t care less what anyone else thinks. It’syou who matters here.
So if his eyes single you out first, you know for sure that he’s got the hots for you.
Do you know other signs a guy is attracted to you?